Hold Your Horses

We're still planning our next event, but in the meantime take a look at the American Cancer Society's Cattle Baron's Ball on May 8.

High Times at the Highball -- Pics are Now Available

Group photo from Highball Photos30 people got their savvy on for bowling, games, private karaoke and dancing at The Highball in South Austin on November 14.

A photo gallery of pics from the night is NOW AVAILABLE.

Start making plans now for our December 11 Christmas Creative Convergence. More details to come!

 

 

 

 

Special Thanks to Our Sponsors

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Affairs, Forgiveness or the Lack Thereof!

 Zeb has been in a tough marriage for 14 years.  3 years in, he had an affair.  He and his wife agreed to get back together and move past it having other children over the time period.  She has never really forgiven him and it affects his marriage daily.  he thought he should stay for the children, but wonders if all he is teaching them is how to be in a miserable marriage?  Why does she want him to stay if she won't forgive him and is full of shaming and blaming behavior toward him?  Should he stay or should he go?

 Nogie King, a Savvy Split endorsed life coach responds to help Zeb.

You state the problem as the fact that your wife will not forgive you and move on, but I wonder if you have ever completely forgiven yourself? Possibly it is about the choice of having an affair or possibly it is about the choice of getting married in the first place. Somewhere you were out of sync with YOURSELF and you may not have forgiven yourself for THAT.

It is now time to dig deep and ask, “How do I get in integrity with myself? What do I really WANT for myself? What choices TODAY, THIS MOMENT will make me feel whole and fulfilled deep inside of myself. These questions are not about what will society approve of or what will make someone else happy (even your children). These are questions about what would truly make YOU happy.
Affairs, Forgiveness or the Lack Thereof!

New York Times Article on Financial Decisions When You Divorce

The New York Times has a great article on the financial decisions you face when you divorce. Topics covered include:

  • heallth insurance
  • mental health
  • credit
  • hired help
  • keeping your house
  • taxes
  • spousal education
  • teenagers
  • future legal costs

Check it out for some savvy advice.

What is Savvy Split?

Savvy Split is about helping people through a divorce by empowering them with information, knowledge and community. When we're finished you'll be able to ask experts in a number of fields questions about the divorce process and every aspect of it -- from computer issues to finding a new home to choosing the right attorney.

We also have a forum where you can talk to both experts and other people going through the same process as you.

So check back frequently as we develop the site.

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